He’s a very good buddy, and I’m concerned this lopsided sexual arrangement might be bad for our friendship. My problem is I am starting to feel guilty and worry I am using Sam. Since then, Sam has blown me three more times. I was glad to get some and had no hang-ups about a guy sucking me. Shortly after breaking up with my girlfriend, I was discussing my lack of oral sex with him and he said he’d be willing to “help me out.” I agreed, and Sam gave me an earth-shattering blow job. Which brings me to why I am writing: One of my closest friends, “Sam,” is a gay guy. I didn’t get a blow job the whole time we were together.

She had a particular aversion to oral sex-both giving and receiving.

One of the reasons we broke up was a general lack of sexual compatibility. Q: I am a 24-year-old straight guy who recently broke up with my girlfriend of more than four years.